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Thursday, January 26, 2012

Big Girlz, how you do what you do…


Big Girlz, how you do what you do…

I experienced the most interesting weekend. It is amazing to me the things I see when in various environments. Side note: ladies if you dress like a whore and are approached in a disrespectful manner, why do you get angry? Granted no man (or woman depending your preference) has the right to touch you inappropriately; however if you advertise sex, don’t trip if you’re propositioned. I’m just saying…

Ok, I digressed.

A couple of weekends ago, I gained some very useful insight on male/female interaction.  Big Girlz it really doesn’t matter what size you are or even how you are “viewed” by society in general. It’s really all about your attitude.  I love to people watch and what I observed on this particular weekend was both average and Big Girlz making connections and hooking up. Confidence is a sexy and attractive trait. It’s so obvious.  I observed some very attractive men openly flirting with Big Girlz all over the place.  Hell I had to shake off a couple myself. LOL…These Girlz donned a look and walk that flipped heads and instantly evoked smiles. I loved it.  Speaking from my own experience OMG, I met some fine ass men. From young and sexy to seasoned and gorgeous, the spectrum I tell ya. 

The point of all this, choose your moment don’t wait for it to choose you.  It’s not always about finding “Mr. Right”, sometimes it’s about enjoying “Mr. Right Now”.

Break out your confident swag. Own it and wear it like that one pair of jeans you know you look good in.  Work that moment, don’t be scared.  When you string them together they can create one Hell of an experience.

Moment by moment moving on to the next one…